Nowadays, couples tend to look past that things are not going so well in their relationship. They face the fact that they need to draw a line between determination and desperation. You cannot make a partner care unless they want to by heart. If you started to wonder how you can make them care so the relationship could work, you’ve already come to the stage where your partner doesn’t care about any of it.
There is absolutely no use losing yourself in the process of loving another. It can happen that you may never regain yourself. It’s the same to them when you tell them how happy they make you and when you tell them they don’t.
1. They are too busy to give you time
Partners always give each other time in a relationship. In that way they show their care and love for each other.
2. They are uncertain
They keep playing the cat and mouse game: just when you give up, they are all into the relationship; when you call it quits, they start thinking of getting back together.
3. They make themselves the focus of attention
You always make sure your partner’s needs and desires etc. are met with accordingly, but that leaves little or no room for you and all you do for them in their ‘me-world’.
4. They start to put the blame on you
You’ve probably noticed that even though it’s not your fault, you partner manages to blame you for little things and big things in everyday life.
5. They treat you arrogantly
Treating others below you is a really bad thing, so if your partner acts in such a way where they use their high rank, charm or power to bring you down in any way then they do not care enough to protect your feelings.
6. Being disrespectful to you
What’s important to you and holds some special value, ought to be respected and cared for by those around you.
7. They are unsupportive
There is no good in being with someone who does not have your back.
8. They treat you like an stranger
You are with them, but they somehow manage to make you feel like an outsider.
9. They make you feel worthless
If your partner makes you feel like you cannot say or do anything right, do you really think they would act in such a way if they actually cared about how your relationship is progressing or should progress?
10. Their apologies do not mean anything
Your partner will commit the same things they would later be sorry for, but they actually aren’t.
11. They try to change you
If your partner cares about you, they would never try to change you, but a careless partner makes you change yourself in so many ways, you feel exhausted.
12. All sex, no love
You know when your partner literally stops caring about the relationship when they do not pay any attention to your actual feelings and respect you deserve from them.
13. They start cheating on you
Loyalty in a relationship is really important. If your partner actually cares about taking the relationship to a serious level, they will never cheat on you.
14. No efforts made to protect you
If your partner does not show any interest in saving you or not even asking you what you are going through, they do not care anymore.
15. They do not bother remembering what you say
When we really care about the person speaking, we listen to them, but when we do not care, we are just hearing.
16. They make you cry more than often
When your partner hurts you and makes you cry then does not even come and make sure you are okay, then you should ask yourself: Do I want to be with someone like that?
17. They have it all to themselves
Whether it’s going out on a Saturday night or planning a trip with friends together, when your partner doesn’t pay much heed into being with you and at least trying to maintain the relationship with you, they’ll keep all the good stuff for themselves and not bother including you in any of it.
18. They have commitment issues
It isn’t always you in a relationship. It’s also what the other person wants. If your partner has fear committing to a relationship, then you should start thinking about where that relationship is going.